Similar to Technosexuality.Īge Play - Mentally assuming an age different from one's actual age, ranging from infantilism through to - less commonly - old age.

Both sides of the slash may require this.Īgalmatophilia - Sexual interest in mannequins or statues. This may or may not involve Blood Play.Īcomoclitism - Deriving sexual pleasure from hairless genitalia.Īftercare - Emotional and/or physical care given after a scene aid the return to a grounded state of mind. Both AB and DL can be exclusive of the other.Ībduction Play - A scenario, or Scene, in which the bottom is restrained and taken to another location.Īblutophilia - Sexual interest in showers and baths.Ībrasion Play - The use of rough items, like sandpaper or wire brushes, to stimulate the skin. There’s a reason the positions and habits of vanilla sex are so popular.Abasiophilia - Sexual interest in people with impaired mobility.ĪBDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) - Someone who dresses and/or roleplays as a baby or toddler, and wears diapers/nappies to relieve themselves. Vanilla sex is usually reliable and satisfying though. While some sexual experiments are great, trying new things doesn’t always pay off. Trying new things can be very confronting, while vanilla sex lets people stay in their comfort zone. While some people feel more vulnerable emotionally during vanilla sex, others say it feels safe and comfortable.

Some people insist they’ll only have missionary sex when they really care for someone. They say it is very intimate and romantic.

People who freely admit they enjoy vanilla sex insist this kind of sex has many perks. According to Adam & Eve's 2012 ' Great American Sex Survey,' of the 1,000 American adults asked to choose their favorite sex positions, 36 percent chose ' female on top' and 33 percent chose ' missionary.” Sex enjoyed by such large percentages of the population can probably be classed as vanilla sex. Despite the term’s negative connotation, vanilla sex can be sensual, romantic and emotional (much like many other flavors!).

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